Friends

Bismillah wa salam..

Everybody have friends. Either many friends, or just a little.. we still have friends. Friends play an important role in our life, who ever you are.

As for me, I can be friend with anybody. I can smile to anybody, I can talk to anybody.. but I don't have many close friends. I'm a little bit picky in choosing my close friend..

I love to see my friends success in their life. I am not a person that like any competition among friends. Yes, sometimes competition is good for ourself, but don't you think how many broken heart because of the so called good competition? My thought is simple, we don't need a competition, what we need is cooperation. If we can't help our friends directly (because of a difference, or any constraint), one thing that we usually forget, DOA. Friends.. please DOA for your friends' success.. eventhough you think what they do is far from their par (ok, but if they have not obey shara', then it is another story).. but we as a human being can't judge people. Who are we to determine other people's future?

Friends, if we talk to our friends, please avoid  KALAU.. please avoid JIKA.

.."Macammana KALAU awak tak dapat ni?"..

.."JIKA awak tak berjaya..."..

KALAU and JIKA and IF just sometimes can make our friends down. Ok, look at the positive side, maybe you want to suggest a plan B to your friends, but it is like you have some doubt about your friends' ability.

For me (for me only), I always said to my friends

.."GOOD LUCK, doa pada Allah, bergantunglah pada Allah.. semoga apa yang kita lakukan ada kebaikan di dunia dan akhirat."..

I am not a good friend, indeed I'm not.. but I believe that dunia ini hanya tempat ujian, tempat kita menjadi lebih baik dari hari ke hari hingga mati.. moga kita tidak tersasar dari matlamat kehidupan.. :)

p/s: This entry is for my awareness..